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Thanks for watching!

I’d love to hear from you.  In the comments below, talk to me.

What I’d like to know:

Which Chakra caught your attention and why?

As a quick reminder:

  • First Chakra: Strong foundation (eliminate the “not enough” cycle)
  • Second Chakra: Sensuality, Sexuality and Creativity
  • Third Chakra: End power struggles (no resistance, no persistence technique)
  • Fourth Chakra: Heart connection, vulnerability and love
  • Fifth Chakra: Communication center.  Speaking up, getting heard and listening.
  • Sixth Chakra: Third eye, intuition. Vision for the future of your relationship.
  • Seventh Chakra: Connection to your life purpose and the eternal.

Love, Cheryl

Wishing for A Great Relationship?

Wishing for Love!
Wishing for Love!

We have all been there.

Wishing to fall in love, wishing to find the right person, or wishing the person we were with was different somehow.

Wishing they were more loving, more generous, more responsive. You know – more better!

According to the dictionary wishing means: to feel, to hope for, or to express a strong desire for something that is not easily attainable; wanting something that cannot or probably will not happen.

Well that explains a lot!

When we wish for something, the first thing we are affirming is that we don’t have it. In order to have a great relationship the first thing to do is stop wishing for it and start creating it.

You can get the book here: Insiders’ Secrets to a Great Relationship!

Having a Great Relationship Takes Something!

Creating a great relationship is not innate; it takes trust, knowledge, awareness and skill to communicate and contribute. After all, we are animals and like most animals survival is our underlying drive. If we are just surviving our relationship, there’s not much room to create it being great. Continue reading Wishing for A Great Relationship?

How to Experience Peace When You are Upset

 Peaceful
Ahhh – Peace at last!

We can all find ourselves upset at times.

Do you have a way that you alleviate your upset?

Do you eat, cry, get angry, take a nap, meditate, go for a walk or take a run?

Do you have a favorite way to release yourself from the grip of being upset?

Here is a guaranteed effective and efficient way to bring peace to yourself when you are upset.

It works like magic.

 

You can share this with your friends and family as a way that they too can release themselves from being upset. (However, I recommend that you don’t try to provide them with this technique when they are upset.) Share this with them when they are in a good mood.

Step 1: Ask Yourself, “What am I Feeling?

Continue reading How to Experience Peace When You are Upset

Ch – Ch – Ch – Change

Me Change?
Me Change?

The other day I was thinking about some changes I wanted to make. You know, things like taking sugar out of my diet and losing 10 lbs.

I was wondering if I could do it.

“How painful is it going to be to make those changes?”

 This had me contemplating,“Why do I both want things to change and resist them changing at the same time?”

“Why do I resist making a change even when I know that it would be good for me, or that I would ultimately really like the results of making that change?”

Hmmm… Continue reading Ch – Ch – Ch – Change

Taking Your Relationship UP

Taking It Up!
Taking It Up!

Ever have a hard time in your relationship?

Want a quick handy guide on how to get back in sync?

Here are a couple of ways to get off it, and take your relationship up…

 

 

1st and foremost:

Give Up Your Need to be Right

It’s just not worth it. Whenever you feel the ‘urgent’ need to jump into a fight over who is right or who is wrong, ask yourself this question: “Would I rather be right, or would I rather feel love and be connected?”

What difference does it really make – who is right or who is wrong?

Ask yourself: “Is my ego really that fragile?” “Why can’t I be wrong?” “What would it mean to be wrong?” “What would happen if I just let it go?”

Open your heart. Can you be more vulnerable?

Get curious. “Why are they saying that?” “Why do they think or feel that way?” “What do they want?”

If you can’t stand the idea of being wrong – wanting to always be right – even at the risk of ending your relationship or causing a great deal of stress and pain, it is time to ask yourself: “Why am I so desperate?” “What do I need – really?”

Continue reading Taking Your Relationship UP